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Title: daddy's leaving us :( Post by: EMMZ on February 19, 2007, 02:19: PM hi all,
we've just found out that my partner is going to afganistan in 3 weeks! booohoo :shock: :-( at the moment lottie is definatly daddys girl. it seems that because im there all week cleaning up after her disaplining her etc. im the bad cop, and he comes home on the week end and gives her treats and play galor and is now good cop. dont get me wrong she loves me but i go out the window when dad home. now hes found out he's leaving for 3 months!. im just wondering if theres any suggestions as to how i cope with her pinning for him, (if she does).i dont want her to forget him, but i dont want her to be sad :roll: Title: Re: daddy's leaving us :( Post by: Mad Max on February 19, 2007, 02:33: PM Hi im sure she'l be fine... you'l probably be the one who'l will miss him more ;-)....As long as theres someone there to give her love and attention she wont be sad. I really wouldnt worry about it! :P
Title: Re: daddy's leaving us :( Post by: EMMZ on February 19, 2007, 02:36: PM ahh thanks :-P must transfer all love and affection from him to her. im sure she'll be fine.
Title: Re: daddy's leaving us :( Post by: FayT on February 21, 2007, 04:46: PM My cocker has been through the same sort of thing and she was fine. Just put any valuable ornaments away when he gets back. Our dog went nuts.
Title: Re: daddy's leaving us :( Post by: EMMZ on February 22, 2007, 08:05: AM hehehe :-D
nice to know they will remember them :) Title: Re: daddy's leaving us :( Post by: FayT on February 22, 2007, 04:14: PM hehehe :-D nice to know they will remember them :) Definitely. I'll be interested to see how our new dog reacts when my husband goes off to sunny climes again. Our other dog, Holly, lies in our dining room facing the back door from about 4pm every day waiting for him to come home. She still does it when he's away. Habit or hope? I can't tell really but it's sweet. Title: Re: daddy's leaving us :( Post by: EMMZ on February 22, 2007, 04:19: PM sweet / heart-breaking!..
the bond between a dog an its owner is so underetemated. :) Title: Re: daddy's leaving us :( Post by: Canyx on February 23, 2007, 12:55: AM My dog was in my mom's office and I called her and I asked to 'speak to my dog'. Just for fun
I said , "Hey soro!" And talked to my mom a bit and wot. When my mom picked me up that day she said Soro spent 30 minutes looking for me in the office, poor thing XD. Title: Re: daddy's leaving us :( Post by: FayT on February 23, 2007, 11:09: AM My dog was in my mom's office and I called her and I asked to 'speak to my dog'. Just for fun I said , "Hey soro!" And talked to my mom a bit and wot. When my mom picked me up that day she said Soro spent 30 minutes looking for me in the office, poor thing XD. We did that with Holly and she did the same: searched the house. I felt very guilty. Title: Re: daddy's leaving us :( Post by: k9media on February 23, 2007, 12:07: PM hi all, we've just found out that my partner is going to afganistan in 3 weeks! booohoo :shock: :-( Given the location he's going to, I am guessing that your husband is in the forces? If so, let him know that his and his colleagues efforts ARE appreciated in a big way. I'm sure your dogs will be a great comfort to you whilst he's away. Title: Re: daddy's leaving us :( Post by: EMMZ on February 26, 2007, 11:22: AM ahh thanks, yes he is in the royal engineers but signed off last week so in a year he's all mine! :grin: yay. cant wait till he gets to come home every night :-) ( im getting all slushy now :oops:)
yes lottie will be a great comfort to me.she is in the week aswell. if your not going home to your OH its nice to know your dog will still be looking forward to you getting home.she always gives me a big loving welcome :mrgreen: |