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« on: November 30, 2006, 11:41: PM »

I'm still having real problems with Rupert on the streets.  I've had him 2 and a half years now and still can't get his attention when we're out  Sad  The trainer we went to at first pretty much gave up on him as her methods didn't work.  I'm pretty much in despair of ever having a dog who can do anything out of the house and garden.  We've practiced him looking at me, him touching my hand with his nose and everything else that's been recommended and still no progress  Crying or Very sad  We go to classes still which haven't helped at all.  He's walked 3 times a day so it's not that he isn't used to being out.  He isn't interested in food in general and won't look at a toy while we're out.  
Can anyone suggest anything that might help?  The only thing I can see being the root of the problem is his fear of other dogs, he is constantly scanning the area and the moment another dog comes into sight he drops like a stone and doesn't want to move until it's gone.  Does anyone have any advice at all?
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« Reply #1 on: November 30, 2006, 11:54: PM »

You are probably trying too hard Sarah.

Put him in the car and take him somewhere quiet. Take a toy, take a picnic. Food for you and his dinner. Don't try and get him to play or eat. If he does it has to be his idea. If it doesn't work today try again tomorrow.

What have you done to help him overcome his fear of dogs?
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« Reply #2 on: December 01, 2006, 12:20: AM »

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You are probably trying too hard Sarah.
Put him in the car and take him somewhere quiet. Take a toy, take a picnic. Food for you and his dinner. Don't try and get him to play or eat. If he does it has to be his idea. If it doesn't work today try again tomorrow.

What have you done to help him overcome his fear of dogs?

Problem is finding somewhere quiet, I can't drive.  Once the rain starts I'll be able to use the nearby field since nobody else wants to wade across it.  Until it floods though practically everyone uses it.

We're in classes to get him around other dogs without being attacked.  He can be introduced to other dogs if we're careful but it only makes a difference with that particular dog.  I put myself between him and strange dogs on the street.  I really don't know what else to do.
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« Reply #3 on: December 01, 2006, 08:47: AM »

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I'm still having real problems with Rupert on the streets. I've had him 2 and a half years now and still can't get his attention when we're out The trainer we went to at first pretty much gave up on him as her methods didn't work.

The trainer you went was a bungling incompetent. This is 2006, 8 years after the first of the modern generation of e-collars came out – you should have had a full environmental safety and legal requirement obedience course offered to you and an e-collar should have been one of the training aids used, the trainer should not have charged you anything he did not give you any results except your dog positively reinforced the behaviours which are causeing you all these problems - another rip off positive trainer.

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 I'm pretty much in despair of ever having a dog who can do anything out of the house and garden. We've practiced him looking at me, him touching my hand with his nose and everything else that's been recommended and still no progress We go to classes still which haven't helped at all. He's walked 3 times a day so it's not that he isn't used to being out. He isn't interested in food in general and won't look at a toy while we're out.


That’s typical of thousands of peoples experience all over the UK, the methods you are being taught are probably handed down from the Upper Plaistocence period.
 You only have to read through these boards to see your story repeated, time after, time after time, yet all pet owners who have used an e-collar show 100% success and they all came from where you are now and much, much worse, its called ‘positive training’, sounds good though.

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The only thing I can see being the root of the problem is his fear of other dogs, he is constantly scanning the area and the moment another dog comes into sight he drops like a stone and doesn't want to move until it's gone. Does anyone have any advice at all?


Do I take it this is a separate issue? E-collar training would not solve that (fear of other dogs) BUT when you say he drops like a stone, that might not be fear, Collie types or those with Collie in them are prone to dropping, its just the herding trait. I am not saying that is what it is, I am saying that’s might be a consideration, IF it is NOT fear of dogs that makes him drop then the problem is that it is still an obedience/control problem and the type of training you have been given would end up with a disobedient dog, these so called trainers should not take your money until you get the results, yet another disgraceful consequence of these so called positive trainers.
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Can anyone suggest anything that might help?

I would be prepared to look at your dog for free and I would then give an opinion if I thought a part or full e-collar obedience course would be of benefit, because of your environment and the fact you have no transport to the country, ever, an e-collar course might be pointless, this is the net and because of that all I really know is if obedience training (paying attention to you etc) would help then an e-collar course or part course is the best chance you have.

Down to you Sarah but as you’ve been plodding along in circles with these so called trainers for 2 years I think you know it’s going nowhere. You have transport/driveing problems, I might (not sure ) consider coming to see your whole situation if you pay all costs, there is a possiblity, only a possibilty, that I go to the Bala area this weekend, in which case I am not far. If you want to consider it I think I can work out a way providing you pay my costs -

 Im fed up of seeing people put so much genuine effort into their dogs, year in, year out and end up like this with these rip off, so called, positive trainers - ITS A BLOODY DISGRACE.

Finally, I can give pre-stated goals of what can be achieved and how long to get there, I also state any significant limitations, this very much takes into account the environment, from what I know of it.

Please read the post at the link below, this is someone with a Yorki who came here looking for advice on e-collars, every time the results are the same success.

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http://www.dogchat.co.uk/phpBB2/viewtopic.php?p=25532&highlight=#25532
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« Reply #4 on: December 01, 2006, 09:24: AM »

Since I wrote that Sarah, I just took a liberty, I just put You and Rupert up as K9s e-collar trained dog of the universe Rupes will be a star-now theres something to aim for from whats going on now and for this past 2.5 years!!!

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« Reply #5 on: December 01, 2006, 11:31: AM »

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Do I take it this is a separate issue? E-collar training would not solve that (fear of other dogs) BUT when you say he drops like a stone, that might not be fear, Collie types or those with Collie in them are prone to dropping, its just the herding trait. I am not saying that is what it is, I am saying that’s might be a consideration,

It could be a completely seperate issue, it could be contributing to his not being able/willing to give me any attention out of the house and garden.  I'm not sure whether he is fearful half the time.  Sometimes I'd say yes, he is definitely afraid because of his body language, other times I'm not certain.
We've recently signed up for classes with the trainer I took my last dog to.  She isn't a positive trainer but I've seen her get results with difficult dogs.  So far we've got it to the stage where I can stand and talk to someone with another dog without Rupe going ballistic but he's still not with me as such at all.  He can actually be in the class rather than on the sidelines as he was at the other class we went to.
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I would be prepared to look at your dog for free and I would then give an opinion if I thought a part or full e-collar obedience course would be of benefit, because of your environment and the fact you have no transport to the country, ever, an e-collar course might be pointless, this is the net and because of that all I really know is if obedience training (paying attention to you etc) would help then an e-collar course or part course is the best chance you have.
Down to you Sarah but as you’ve been plodding along in circles with these so called trainers for 2 years I think you know it’s going nowhere. You have transport/driveing problems, I might (not sure ) consider coming to see your whole situation if you pay all costs, there is a possiblity, only a possibilty, that I go to the Bala area this weekend, in which case I am not far. If you want to consider it I think I can work out a way providing you pay my costs -

As to that thank you.  Unfortunately until after Christmas I've not got the money to pay for anything thanks to being off work sick for 6 weeks.  I have no idea where you are but Rupert is used to travelling on trains so there's a possibility we could come to you if necessary.  
The only thing that worries me about using an ecollar with him is the fact that he's so fearful in general and I don't want to make that any worse.
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« Reply #6 on: December 01, 2006, 12:01: PM »

I highly disrecomend an electric collar, they are illegal to import most of the time and most dog charities and clubs disaprove greatly.

It may just be you have a dog that loves walks!, My honey is like that i can play fetch in the house but once a lead comes into the equation i can throw the ball at her face and she wont even blink!!

An alternative to electric shock therapy would be a little spray bottle as its just a bit of water but has the same effect as a shock collar, except theres no wrong way of using it!
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« Reply #7 on: December 01, 2006, 12:23: PM »

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I highly disrecomend an electric collar, they are illegal to import most of the time and most dog charities and clubs disaprove greatly.

It may just be you have a dog that loves walks!, My honey is like that i can play fetch in the house but once a lead comes into the equation i can throw the ball at her face and she wont even blink!!

An alternative to electric shock therapy would be a little spray bottle as its just a bit of water but has the same effect as a shock collar, except theres no wrong way of using it!

And also has no effect whatsoever on Rupert.  Maybe emptying a bucket over his head would but a spray bottle doesn't.  He doesn't seem to hear me speak to him while we're out.  He doesn't even seem to realise I'm there and on the rare occasion he looks round and happens to see me he greets me the same as he does when I come in from work.  I'm not asking him to play on walks, it's not important to me.  I would like a dog who realises I'm there though and doesn't have to be hauled to a stop or round corners.
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« Reply #8 on: December 01, 2006, 12:27: PM »

I'll redirect you to a post i did a quite while back, it seems to have worked wonders on alot of dogs

Your dog wont come?? Whistle train it in just 30 minutes!!
http://dogchat.co.uk/phpBB2/viewtopic.php?t=5275
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« Reply #9 on: December 01, 2006, 12:27: PM »

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Sarah-Unfortunately until after Christmas I've not got the money to pay for anything thanks to being off work sick for 6 weeks.


That’s not a problem providing we can work something out, this has been on a long time and few more weeks can/have to be, tolerated.
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I have no idea where you are but Rupert is used to travelling on trains so there's a possibility we could come to you if necessary.


I’m in London, what I need first is to assess whether or not IMO he/you would  benefit from a training program, including an e-collar as one of the aids. My reservations, based on what you have said, are that there are some things about his normal environment which might make e-training/any training pointless – in contrast to that there are a lot of other things (many other things) which make me fairly sure that you would get a lot of benefit from a short e-course, not least is the fact that I do educate people and they can deal with almost anything themselves without needing to refer to any trainers.
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The only thing that worries me about using an ecollar with him is the fact that he's so fearful in general and I don't want to make that any worse.


No, the opposite is true, a nervous dog (providing it’s not a physical thing) gains confidence and BIG quantities, what it cannot do is stop his fear, IF it is fear, of other dogs, but he would have more confidence in you and a better relationship with you as the result of e-collar training and this might decrease any fear, IF he has fear, of other dogs.
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Maybe K9 will make some contribution to travell costs and do a K9 Magazine  e-trained dog before and after xx weeks(around 6 weeks)
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and a positive trained dog before and after xx weeks - both dogs to be assesed as haveing similar backgrounds and dispositions. A K9 video or something?
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« Reply #10 on: December 01, 2006, 12:42: PM »

Nah. Got to keep this purely dogchat related to settle the age old question of what is the meaning of life.., sorry, I mean - who's the best dog trainer on the board  : Twisted Evil and who's methods work best.

I come from a field trial background where these matters are always settled by the dogs. If my dog performs better than your dog, I win. My methods of getting there are not relevant.

Most people know my views on the e-collar - I personally don't chose to use them as I've never had any real cause to but I would never slam someone else's dog training methods to proclaim mine is better than theirs - I extend that to the e-collar. Competing with dogs has a nasty habit of slapping you in the face. Slag someone off and ridcule their methods, only to have them turn up at a trial one day and beat you comprehensively will make a person more open to other people's methods. I always judge the trainer by their dog, nothing else. Nothing else at all.
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« Reply #11 on: December 01, 2006, 12:46: PM »

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Problem is finding somewhere quiet, I can't drive.  Once the rain starts I'll be able to use the nearby field since nobody else wants to wade across it.  Until it floods though practically everyone uses it.

We're in classes to get him around other dogs without being attacked.  He can be introduced to other dogs if we're careful but it only makes a difference with that particular dog.  I put myself between him and strange dogs on the street.  I really don't know what else to do.


I appreciate that it is difficult for you without transport but you need to help him with his fears as a priority.

I personally would never put a dog that was scared of other dogs in a class situation unless the class or group was specifically to help with that problem with hand picked dogs.

All you need is one scared dog and one aggressive dog in a class together and you will create a victim and a bully. They don't even have to meet, just a look across the room will be enough.

Even though your intentions are to teach him to be around other dogs and not worry about being attacked, he doesn't know that he won't be attacked.

If he won't eat or play when you take him out then he is scared and stressed.

Every time you try to get his attention when there is another dog approaching you are drawing his attention to the problem. I'd just move him out of the situation without ceremony.

My son-in-law has a tarantula and I go to their house to babysit. You have just reminded me that I was alone in their house with a baby and a tarantula (and 3 dogs and a cat) on Monday night but do you know I never even thought about it at the time because my daughter puts it in the spare room and doesn't mention it when I go up. If however she said "Don't worry about Rosie (yes the tarantula is called Rosie) Mum, she's in the spare room" then I would worry all evening that she had escaped and was coming to get me. Shocked


Exactly how does it cause you a problem? Is it just that he barks at other dogs or does it mean you cannot let him off lead for exercise? Does he want to run away from other dogs or does he go towards them barking to get them to back off?
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« Reply #12 on: December 01, 2006, 01:05: PM »

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I agree with that, it's also one of my reservations about just what could be done/possible but which might not make much difference because the environment cannot be controlled or changed. I would seriously think about saveing for a car and driveing lessons, at some point in life you will probaly get one anyway.
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« Reply #13 on: December 01, 2006, 01:09: PM »

Note to anyone who is unaware

Flooding is a techniquer used on human fear by just making the person do something quickly again and again eg holding a spider and not having time to think too long.


Flooding nearly never works on dogs and can make the problem even worse.

Just a little note for anyone thinking of this
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« Reply #14 on: December 01, 2006, 02:33: PM »

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Exactly how does it cause you a problem? Is it just that he barks at other dogs or does it mean you cannot let him off lead for exercise? Does he want to run away from other dogs or does he go towards them barking to get them to back off?

We go to classes and actually participate now.  Before we stood at a distance he wasn't reacting at and gradually moved closer.  He wasn't just thrown into a class straight away.  At class he pretty much ignores the other dogs although he has a couple he wants to play with.

I don't even ask for his attention when we meet another dog and we're out,no point as I know I've no chance of getting it.  He's moved out of the way so they can pass or I turn around and go the other way.  The leash stays loose and I don't feel stressed by it.  He's no longer lunging at them so we've got somewhere on the issue.  If a loose dog approaches he'll stay behind me and let me deal with it.

He can't be let off leash for exercise.  He is quite unpredictable. Sometimes he'll run from another dog, sometimes he'll try to initiate play, other times he will attack (and it's a full on attack, not just running and barking) so he stays on leash.  Partly because of that and partly because of his deafness if there's a small animal to chase.  

He will eat when we're out provided I wave the treat under his nose where he can get it without moving or place it in his mouth.  He won't look at me or the treat though.  He gets excited to go for walks and seems to enjoy them but is jumpy when out.
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